My experience this time around with labor and hospitals and doctors visits has reminded me of my deep desire to have a midwife and delivery at home.
Life has been really frustrating. People DON'T listen. I was a different I guess rarer kind of nurse. What my patients said was usually relevant to their healthcare.
Do doctors and nurses realize that you are ultimately in charge of your healthcare. You live with yourself and care or don't care for your self.
Ultimately whether you are healthy or not has nothing to do with your doctor and everything to do with Your choices.